Picking up Noah every afternoon. He walks right to my car and always has a great big smile on his face. And he tells me so many stories every single day.
Other informative tidbits. Noah goes to school Monday through Thursday 7:55am and gets out at 2:25pm. And on Fridays everyone in middle school gets out early. Noah gets out at 1:25pm every Friday. An American middle school schedule? It's not stressful. Noah feels so happy getting out of school at 2:25pm most days, but he can't get over the fact that he gets out at 1:25pm every single Friday. Also, free wifi at middle school for all kids. And yes, you may use your cell phone in class. This is shocking to me. Because this is not allowed in chugakko in Japan. Also, Noah told me that after first period/class everyone in his school... has snack time. Everyone brings a "school approved" snack (no nuts) to eat in their classroom after first period. What in the heck?!!! Please keep in mind. I have been an American mother in Japan for 16 years. I know how to send my kid to a Japanese school, yes I do. I did it and I did it well too!!! Now I'm here and I have absolutely *zero* idea how to be a mom to children going to an American school. A Target run was in order... to buy "after first period snacks." Individual snack sizes of Goldfish, Mint Milano cookies, Snack size of Chips Ahoy and Nutter Butter and some other type too. Also, everyone drinks 500ml of water throughout the day at Noah's school. So they don't get thirsty during their study. So, now every single day, Noah brings a snack for after first period and a 500ml of bottle water. Good thing a case of bottled water is like $3 here. OMG, you guys. I'm learning so much. Noah was given a brand new Chromebook (laptop) each child is issued one for free. Each family pays $30 for insurance on it for the year. Kids here do a lot of assignments in middle school on that. Plus they do worksheets a lot here too. Branden used one in his high school in Japan. But we had to buy B's Chromebook in Japan. It's nice that here... you don't need to buy it, the school provides them, to all the kids. Noah has about 13 kids in each of his classes, in middle school. Considering Noah used to have 38 kids in his class in Japan. The small class size at his school here is nice. Noah has about 45 minutes of homework every night. He does it on the kitchen table and I sit with him, ready to help. Last night Noah did homework on Christopher Columbus. Noah does the pledge of Allegiance every single morning, to the United States of America.
Noah has always been extremely western looking. In Japan, it was always so super easy finding Noah during undokai or during a Christmas play. Or even if my child was playing in the playground at the local elementary school in Japan, it was always super easy to find Noah. Noboru used to tell me.... every undokai..."thank goodness it's so easy to find Noah"...meanwhile my Japanese friends would put bright socks or patterned long socks on their child... so they could easily find their child. But for us, we could find Noah super easy. And we didn't need socks to help us, lol. His face stood out enough. So it was always easy. I mention this because...on Noah's very first day of school. The teacher collected Noah from the office and we, Noboru and I stood there and she walked him into the hallway and there were western kids walking everywhere. And as soon as Noah walked a little bit aways. I could *not* tell the difference of where my son was. Which son was mine? He blended into the crowd of western faces so well, I could not pick out which one was my child. That has absolutely never happened to me before with Noah. Not ever. And after school, when I am waiting for him to walk out of the building and to my car, again, I can't tell which kid is mine anymore. Every day I sit and think hard...what was Noah wearing this morning? I miss being able to find my child in a blink of an eye.
We live in a very nice community. It's seriously so pretty here. And Noah's first day... during lunch. Other kids kindly wanted to give a cookie to the new kid from Japan (meaning Noah) Noah was sitting with his new friends at the lunch table. And he said, the kids were excited but kept walking around the lunch room, saying "where is that new kid from Japan at?" Noah said they passed him like 6 times. Until one of the boys Noah was sitting with said, "this is Noah, he's the one from Japan" ...the kids were all super nice, but Noah said they said..."you??? You can't be from Japan, you're *not* Japanese!!!" I'm sorry but that made me....LMAO....Poor Noah. And ya'll know...kids are the most honest, they say it like, they see it. Noboru was still here when that happened. And we were all dying laughing when we heard that. Noah did say politely, "I am half Japanese, my dad is Japanese, my mom is American." They could not believe it. They asked him to speak Japanese and Noah obliged with a few sentences. And they then believed him. I don't think anyone has mentioned Japan or the fact he's half Japanese, since the first day. And he hasn't been asked to speak Japanese, since that one and only time. You bottom line in life... get treated by how you look. He doesn't look Asian to anyone here and they always said that in Japan too. And while Noah is proud to be hafu and proud to be half Japanese. He basically just blends into 98% of the rest of the school.
I have good Branden stories to share too. But that will wait until next time. |