| As soon as my kids started elementary school I started to have to be assigned to do the "morning greeting" once a year for Branden. When Noah started elementary school. Because Bran also went to the same school. That meant I had to only do the "morning greeting" once a year even though...I had 2 boys enrolled in the same school. This was nice! However, when Bran started JHS. We now, once again had to do the "morning greeting" for the JHS and also the elementary school. So, that meant I had to do this twice a year, since Bran has been a student at the local JHS. This usually means once in November and once in February or something you know what I mean. It is just something done here in Japan. And something every parent has to do, if you have a child in elementary or JHS. I did not have this, when my kids were in yochien. It's hard to juggle doing this in the mornings. Especially if you have to make and pack obento for your children...and drive them to school. The awesome thing about my husband is...if he has a work schedule that he is available to do this..he will not mind doing this. And he has done this about 4 times, in all 8 years. So while he doesn't do this every time, he helps when he can. Last year, I did Bran's and Noboru did Noah's. Since they were on different months. Is it fun to do this? Honestly no. It's not hard either though... but it isn't fun. You have to stand there outside looking like a complete dork.. for about 30 minutes. And usually it's Fall or Winter and so it's cold and/or rainy. Bran brought home a sash and Noah brought one too. Bran said we have to do his on Wednesday and Noah said we have to do his on Thursday. Noboru was available on Wednesday. and so he offered and said, I can do Bran's and you can do Noah's since he was not available on Noah's day. Okay. and then...we got an email from the JHS saying they all made a mistake and since that Tuesday was a national holiday. The street greetings was to be held on Thursday instead. So, Basically Noboru couldn't do any of the boys days this year. Though he *wanted* to help. His work schedule just didn't allow it and that's fine. However....again... it's all about how you take things. You can take things super badly and negatively and say...this sucks. And now I have to do this twice as long. Or you can take it super well and say..."you mean, I get both of my boys street greetings, knocked outta the way in 1 day...in 1 fell swoop?" Hell yes! And that's how I took it! I was like...this is sorta cool! I get both kids scratched right off the list, for 1 mornings work! I'll take that! Did I have to wake up at 5am that morning? OMG, yes I did. Did I have to make lunch by 5:30am? Yes, I did. Then I went upstairs and washed my face and then put some lotion on and sunblock. and then I did my eyebrows and eye make up and didn't wear a stitch of makeup anywhere else. No foundation, no concealer, not a drop. I just did my eyebrows (eyebrow mascara), 1 color of eye shadow, one very natural nude color. And that's it, not even eye liner or mascara. I did wear some lip balm though... so my lips didn't get all dried out and crackly... by being outside for over an hour. And I also didn't have any coffee that morning either in case, I had to go pee. I got the kids up. And ready. Noah walked to school with his friends. And I usually really don't care for him to walk. I know Japanese people feel safe with their kids walking. But, as an American, growing up with news stories like...Adam Walsh (abducted at a store), Polly Klause (granted she was taken out of her house during a sleepover), Jaycee Duggard (was abducted on her way to school) Etan Patz (a little boy who disappeared on his way to school) and even in Japan, that girl last year who was abducted on her way home from school. Again, I wish I could *not* worry. But coming from a country with cases...like that in the media. It sorta freaks me out. And so yes...I drive my kids. It just saves me the heart attack. Granted, I know some schools have a "don't drive your kid to school" policy but not all schools do. And our school does *not* have that rule. Our school is very unusual. So Noah walked with his friends. And Bran rode his bike. And for the elementary kids, I was to greet kids from 6:30am to 7:10am. And for the JHS, I was to greet from 7:10am to 7:40am. So, I walked with Noah to the entrance of our housing community. And he stayed with me, until his 2 besties came walking and then he joined them. There was 1 lady from the elementary school also doing hers with me that morning, she was a 5th grade mom and while I know pretty much everyone. I seriously do. I didn't know this lady for the life of me. She greeted me and I greeted her and she went to the opposite side of the road as me and greeted kids and that was nice. I basically greeted kids on my side of the road and she greeted them on the opposite side of the road. When the time was up, she left and we did the "job well done' greetings to one another. And she got in her car and left. : ) She drove from her house to our housing community's entrance and back home. I walked. I prefer the exercise, but then...that could be just me. : ) See the sashes in this picture? And don't forget the sexy arm bands either! Hahaha. And at 7:08am, I put on my JHS sash and so for a 3 minute period, I had on 2 sashes and 2 arm bands. I could tell by that...the elementary school only mom thought...oh wow, she has a JHS kid too. : ) Hahaha. I was the senpai there. : ) |