How's everyone been doing? I'm sure you all have been busy in your own lives lately. Same for us. These past 2 weeks especially have been pretty busy around here. It's honestly a wonder how I can get all things done, accomplished and know wonder most nights I just fall into a deep deep sleep.:P I'm sure most mom's reading feel the same. I actually fell asleep on the couch once this week and woke up and had to shuffle myself up to bed. :D Between dealing with school life at the elementary school and *also* dealing with school life and my obligations at the yochien. I'm busy with just those two things alone. But add on top of that the Kumon and swimming and house cleaning, meal making. Homework helping. Boo boo kissing (Noah got a little scratched knee this week, so had to kiss and make it better :D ) Seriously, yeah things have been sorta nuts around here. @_@ No wonder my blog gets updated always last. : ( But then like I always tell myself, "family first (husband and kids and extended family), house second, school things after that somewhere and blog has to go last" It just does. I'm sure it's the same for many of you too. Anyway, we knew since the beginning of the month, but weren't given the "list" until last week. So a week in advance, so that was good. A week for me to get the list widdled down and get things packed into his backpack. The note said Branden could bring snacks but they couldn't cost more then 300yen. Okay that was the same rule for field trips we had in yochien as well. So, last week, I grabbed his 300 yen misc. snacks while I was doing my weekly shopping last week.
Monday evening we BBQ-ed this was delayed from Saturday, because of the big winds! Ha ha ha. So we still had the hamburger buns and the hot dog buns and we wanted to use them before they went bad. So, Monday morning I took the meat outta the freezer and by the evening we had our burgers hot dogs, grilled but baked potatoes and BBQ chicken. Nothing fancy just very very simple. So that was Monday night.
This was my meal, simple BBQ eats Monday night. I had a baked potato, a hot dog and a piece of BBQ chicken. It was good and filling. I think I was still a bit full from lunch though. : ) Oh yeah also Monday I ran to the store with both the boy's and ran in for some fresh fruit for their obento. I was thinking bright red strawberries. But Branden asked for fresh pineapple. So, they both had pineapple. Also, I was planning to make yakitori for their obento. That was my plan since last week. I had my sauce and sticks and everything. However Monday Branden requested karaage. I said, "karaage?" That was in your last obento, you can't have that again!" He said, but everyone in my class is taking karaage, so I want to take it too. *Deep sigh* (it's only lunch it's not the end of the world I thought) okay, okay, you can take it then too. Kids, I tell ya!
Tuesday morning, my hubby left the house for work at 5:30am. He had a 6am to 2pm shift. So we said a quick goodbye and he left. : ) Meanwhile yup, I woke up Tuesday morning at 5:30am actually around 5:20am is more like it. And I got started on the boy's lunch. I have made obento a 1000 times. But honestly I have never made obento for both kids before on the same day. Luckily it wasn't any harder then just making one though, lol! So there I sat at 5 freaking 30am. In the kitchen. Listening to UB40. Put the rice into the containers, boiled the veg. Placed their fruit into their fruit cups. Noah loves furikaki, so placed an Anpanman one there so I wouldn't forget. Started arranging and was done by 6am. 6am, I ran upstairs woke them both up. Noah usually sleep in later but today I was really pinched for time since I also had to get myself to the mother's luncheon and get myself ready with my face on, etc. So, they both woke up, they both split a 3 egg cheese omelet and rice. Branden's bus was leaving at 8am SHARP for the ensoku. So, we drove B to school at 7:30am. Noah went in the car with his jammies. Dropped off B. Waved at "Boy's next door's mom" who was also dropping off "Boy next door" and boy next door's little brother, who is now an ichinensei this year. And I drove Noah and I home. Hmmm. Noah had eaten his breakfast already and lunch was made. So, I ran upstairs and took a 5 minute quick shower just washed my body real quick and my face. Jumped out of the shower, did my hair and put my face on. Got dressed. Then I went downstairs, Noah was watching cartoons in his jammies, good boy, good boy. Got him upstairs brushed his teeth put on his yochien uniform. And we were on our way to yochien!!!! Dropped off Noah. And I went home. It's now 9:30am, kids are both at school, my luncheon starts at 11am. However did I manage to get all that needed to be done this morning so far! Good going, keep it up, I thought! So, I vacuumed the downstairs and upstairs. And now it was 10am. I didn't want to clean anymore, hmm showing up a big sweaty mess at the luncheon sounded like a no no to me. Ha ha ha. So, Instead, I sat on the couch and practiced my speech. I practiced my speech 30 minutes Monday night. I practiced my speech Tuesday morning another 30 minutes. I knew it by heart frontwards and backwards, inside and out!!! However I *know* me. I know how horrible I am at public speaking. Giving speeches in English is scary for me, anyway and that's my native language, but giving a speech in Japanese? Ha ha ha! Also, regarding speeches when I get nervous, I tend to forget things and parts of my speech. So, I printed it out Tuesday morning just in case. Thank god I did!
So anyhow, I am now at the luncheon meeting spot, the restaurant basically. As usual, I was the first one there since I always tend to be freakishly early. : ( I sat in my car and tried not to look like a dork for being so early. Good thing I always keep something to read in my car. Ha ha ha. One mom came, and she was the lady who we went to the Indian restaurant the day before with. She waved and met me at my car. We walked into the restaurant and went upstairs. We chit chatted a bit in Japanese. She said they will sit me next to Jogo-san since we both speak English and we can talk to each other. I said thank you. That was really considerate of them for doing that. Another mother came and so the 3 of us chit chatted in Japanese. And then a few more and a few more. 21 mothers came. 22 were expected to come. But 1 name tag was sitting on the table perhaps her child got sick, which is understandable. I had my speech printed and hiding in my purse. For emergency purposes only. Jogo-san came and she sat next to me. She told me she was *very* nervous and this was her first time. And she was glad to be sitting next to me. I told her, "not to worry, I am very nervous too and I am glad to be sitting next to you too" While we were all sitting and waiting for the last few ladies to come. I sat and I asked myself this question. Just thinking this obviously not saying this, ha ha. (Gina do you remember your speech?) and I sat there and I thought, now what was the first line? And I am kidding you not, I was completely mind blocked. Not a single word came to mind. It was as if I had never practiced my speech at all! What the hell? Seriously. Not a single word could be remembered. Yet, I know, I practiced this flipping thing over and over again. How could this be happening to me? OMG! (remain calm I thought) Anyway the last lady comes in and we all begin. The 3 or 4 ladies hosting this luncheon started. One started speaking and gave info on how we are supposed to park our vehicles in June for some day us parents are supposed to go to the school. Okay, I got that. She went on and spoke about a few other topics. Understood those too. Shook my head. And then she started off the introductions. It started at the left side of the table and I was on the right side of the table. I listened. Everyone had given such great intros. By now I realized I must be suffering freaking nerves or flippin' short term memory loss (lol) or something and was SO SO SO glad I printed my speech out. I wasn't going to even attempt it free style. No thanks, saying the wrong thing and utterly humiliating myself? No thanks. I prefer just read it and read it well, there's no shame in reading it. At least I can't muck it up. : ) Okay by now we are on the 2nd lady to my left. When she stood up, she looked visibly nervous. It was a relief to know I wasn't the only nervous person. Then the lady to my direct left gave hers and then it was my turn. I stood up and I gave my speech and I said it perfectly. Granted I wish I woulda been able to say it without reading it. But you know what...whatever and who cares!!! I did the best I could. And everyone clapped for me, like we clapped for all the others too and I was just so relieved I got through it! Hey...at least I showed up for this luncheon and at least I am friendly and social and heck, I did try my best!!! I couldn't have asked for more! I got through it. Yatta!!!! Jogo-san did her speech and she did wonderful too and the next 3 ladies and it was done. Honestly I think we were ALL nervous about speaking and I think we were all relieved to be done with the speaking part. After that the food came, and we were all relaxed. I chatted with the ladies across from me. And the ladies to the left of me. And chatted with Jogo-san. Ohhhh also, I was asked to bring Branden's yearbook. So, I brought it. 2 other mother's brought theirs too. We passed them through the group of ladies and they all looked at the 3 yearbooks. So, now all the red badge mom's know my older son attended here as well. But I think ,most knew that anyway though. Ohhhh, also one lady, she introduced herself, she said she came from blah blah town. The same town as me. I was surprised, I didn't realize another one came from the same town as me. It sorta made me happy though because at least when Noah does become an ichinensei, like in many years from now, lol, he will be starting shogako with at least 1 classmate from his yochien. So that was cool and also a surprise. She sat at the totally opposite side of the table though.
After the luncheon, I went to go and get Noah. All of us mom's went and picked up our kids. Picked up Noah, at 1:50pm. drove home, now it's 2:10pm. Got his stuff unpacked and we both went to the bathroom (had to pee *so* bad, I was practically doing a jig) and at 2:30pm we left to go pick up B. So many mom's waiting for their kids at the elementary school. I spoke with Kouiki's mom, told her I went to the yochien's mommy's lunch today. We giggled a bit and talked about how it was. I told her it was good. Kouiki made melon pan it looked cute, I told them both it looked so good. Branden meanwhile baked a dinner roll type bread and he did this bear face on it (pictured up above). Granted the lips sorta remind me of Mick Jagger or something but it's okay. As being a mom, I told him after we got home, how that was the best looking bread I'd ever seen. Which that made him very happy hearing that. Ha ha ha. We warmed up the bread and put butter on it, it was really good, all four of us shared the bread Branden made. By now Hubby is home. He's exhausted, and I'm freaking out of my mind exhausted too. Started from 5:30am with obento, yeah it's safe to say I am freaking exhausted. I was set to make cream stew, I had the meat defrosting in the the fridge but hubby said, "let's go to restaurant" so we drove to Narita and had Chinese. One thing about my husband is he truly knows when I am just THAT tired and he picks up on it. He was very smart to take us to the restaurant and I appreciated it, heck I needed it, ha ha ha. We had ebi chili, 3 orders of gyoza, haposai ramen (interesting eh, but good), and 3 large orders of fried rice. 4 egg drop soups, we all shared everything. Branden told us all his fun and crazy stories of his field trip while at the restaurant. Then I went and told them how "mommy got a major brain fart at the luncheon and completely forgot what I was supposed to say" but luckily I printed it out. Oh they laughed so hard at me for forgetting! I admit I laughed so hard at myself for that too! How hilarious! Hubby told us this story at work a really interesting one. And Noah added he crayoned with Chi-chan today and he also got a scratch on his thigh while playing outside, lol. The conversation at dinner was pretty umm lively to say the least. Ha ha ha. It was good! : )
Tuesday was the last day of school for Noah. He's now on Golden week break. Because Wednesday is a holiday in Japan. I think it's Showa Day (?) And Thursday the yochien is closed. So the holiday started for Noah already. Branden is off today/Wednesday too. But he has class Thursday and no class Friday. So B's last day is Thursday. So no school stuff for us for a while. Which is nice, a break is sorta appreciated here and there. : ) Gives us mom's a much needed break, right? : ) What will I do this Wednesday and Thursday? Clean house, and start packing for our trip. We also have to get through these 2 DVD's before we leave. So, tonight and tomorrow night we will be watching these movies. But mostly staying home resting cleaning or packing (we have very little to pack anyway though).
Friday May 1st, Hubby and the kids and I are flying out of Narita, we are going to Guam for Golden week. We will be staying at my dad's condo. We could really use the rest and relaxation. And the tropical weather sounds really nice to us. We plan to swim at my dad's pool and also do some snorkeling at the beach, also take some drives around the island. Eat some good eats. And basically just veg out and have fun. Perhaps take in a movie while there as well, who knows. And as usual get my eyebrows waxed. These suckers haven't been waxed in a month. @_@ They are starting to look straggly.
Anyway, just wanted to say, if my blog is a bit quiet from now, it's just because I am packing getting ready for our trip, or we are on our trip. Either way, if I am quiet in the blogosphere for the next week or so, it's just because we are away. But I'll check in with you all after we get back. Besides, I know you all have lots going on yourselves in your own daily lives, so you all more then understand anyway. : )
Just wanted to say....I hope you all have an awesome Golden Week for those of you in Japan. And please have a wonderful week for those of you not in Japan. And dad, we'll be seeing you this Friday!!!! : )
