| And an email said we could save the spot at the elementary school at 5pm. The note also said, you may not enter the school grounds before 5pm. But you may wait in line. My family and I went to wait in line at 3pm and just so you know, we were 3rd in line. Yes, there were actually folks there ahead of us already. So sit there with a stack of magazines, I did. I flipped through my magazines. Chatted with my dad. The boys chatted with friends. About 10 minutes after we got there, 3 other family's were in line behind me. By 3:45 about 30 families were in line. By 4:30 about 50 families were in line. I don't know if I should say this or not. But, I want to say it. It absolutely has to be said. What I find absolutely disgusting! Is when somebody saves a spot for other people! I think that is greatly unfair. Do you remember...in America at Pearl Harbor, the rule says, you may only get a ticket for how many people are physically there in line that morning. Meaning 1 person cannot grab 20 tickets, for people not there. And maybe because I am American and I think that rule at Pearl Harbor is fair and just! It is not fair to save seats for folks NOT there, while others have been in line waiting before them! Do you know what I mean??? The 2nd lady in line, the lady directly, in front of me. Had 1 big leisure sheet and 1 small leisure sheet. Description, her big sheet was about twice bigger then ours pictured here. And her small one, was a 1 person leisure sheet size. Okay. That doesn't bother me. However. And you all know most things don't bother me at all...I am just *that* laid back. So if this greatly bothered me, then you know! Her "friend" who was say person in line #17. Walked up to her and greeted her and she her. And then lady #2 left and went back in the line to talk to her in private. And guess what? Lady in line #2 brought back her friends leisure sheet under her arm! Seriously can you believe it?! My mind was racing. Yet I said nothing. I angrily thought, this isn't fair! Her friend is #17, but because her friend is second in line she can save her a spot now too? Is that fair? Any logical thinking person, would say this is bull crap! This is not fair! And then get ready for this... but this happened like 4-5 more times with lady 2nd in line! By the time it was all over said and done, she had 6-7 leisure sheets, I am not exaggerating, I'm serious. Another of her quote and quote friends, would come to her...she'd disappear and come back with yet again... another leisure sheet. In America...we would have said something. We would have said. "hey...that's not cool! Knock it off! No Save-sy's!!!" Is that really fair to the rest of us? No it isn't! How come someone can roll up at 4:45pm and now...simply throw their leisure sheet, to chick 2nd in line and that's okay? No sir, no mam, that ain't okay! Not by a long shot! That sucks! And for what it's worth. My dad saw this entire thing unfold and he was so pissed. I mean he's human, he's watching this whole entire thing unfold, right before his eyes, he's so shocked. And he knows this isn't fair either. This sucks! This is like so low...so ghetto! So, no class. So trashy! So unacceptable! I whispered to Noboru, and he said..."we can't say anything. Because...they're locals and we're not!" He said if this was Osaka, he'd be the local. But here...we really don't have a leg to stand on! So, what did we do? We just sat there and took it! I was so mad on the inside. I was just boiling mad! Seething! And here is the worst of the worst kickers. One of Branden's classmates, we call him "caterpillar eyebrows" because he has the thickest darkest fullest groucho Marx type eyebrows. Anyway, "caterpillar eyebrows dad" has always been such a complete pig, if I'm to be honest, regarding spot saving. Every year, he runs like the freaking Chariots of Fire, as if he's *in* the undoaki. And he brings a rope and ropes off about 100 tsubo in size a spot! He's so unbelievably greedy and he does this every frickin' year! Since Branden was in the first grade. But you know what...he's a local. Born and raised many generations from our town. Noboru's from Osaka and I'm from America, so we just have to shut our mouths...fully seeing the injustice and say nothing. Please try if you will... can you understand how unbelievably hard this is?!!! As an American, who was raised to fully speak her mind! Nope, can't say a thing...unless of course we want to be blacklisted. And it's our kids who would suffer if we said anything. So anyway, this year I see caterpillar eyebrows dad like, #21 in line. And I think to myself..."thank you Jesus... there is fairness in this world. And there is karma. And it has finally hit!" And guess what? Local power wins! Caterpillar eyebrows dad, sees 2nd lady in line and comes and greets her. And I am on the inside screaming...please for the love of fairness in this world... please do not help that greedy man! 2nd lady in line goes and disappears with Caterpillar eyebrows dad and she comes back with his infamous 100 tsubo leisure sheet. I swear his leisure sheet is larger then 8 full size mini vans side by side. At that point, I think this just sucks. This lady 2nd in line sucks! Okay, I know....it's not nice to think, bad thoughts about people but...yes I admit, I was thinking very bad thoughts! Hey, I'm human and this is just **so** totally unfair. And sucks so bad. So, I am really boiling with anger, inside. Oh and by the way....Branden's classmate and good friend K. Whispers to Branden, "caterpillar eyebrows dad (he used his real name) is having the lady in front of you, save his spot!!!" Oh just lovely...as if we didn't assume that earlier... now we just have actual confirmation of it! And do you want to hear the most unbelievable thing of all! The 2 ladies in front of me. The first lady who is clearly good friend of lady # 2, they both loudly talk... real loud in Japanese...."I hope *people* follow the rules and not run, because that would mean breaking the rules." Please insert eyeball roll here! At that very moment a sensei/teacher walks by. These first 2 ladies actually have nerve to ask the sensei to come over and the 2 in front of me, tell the sensei...."can you tell the people in line all the way down...please do not run, because we want everyone to follow the rules!" Yes, these 2 angels (being sarcastic) actually just said that! @_@ Okay...now these 2 want to follow the rules? Hmmm! So let me get this straight... they want nobody to run, so they want *that* rule followed.... but they want to break the rules and save spots for people who were not even in line and in order. Interesting... how some people pick and choose which rules to follow! Again, I said nothing, I kept my American mouth shut and just watched this great unfairness unfold, right before my eyes. Because...I am not a local. I would hate to see my sons suffer if I said/spoke the truth! Noboru tried to reassure me and whispered to me..."don't worry honey...imagine how much longer it will take to unfold all the leisure sheets." Well whoop deedoo, not very reassuring. I smiled at Noboru because he too knows how unfair this is...so I just breathed in and out slowly and quietly. Because of the 2 rule breakers in front of me, now *demanding* all people walk and not run. They had the teachers actually shout over the megaphone for people to follow the rules. Yep...follow the rules??? hahaha. Gee, I wish people would practice what they preach! And have some sense of manners. Some sense of morals or morality. Some sense of right and wrong...some sense of, gee this isn't fair to those of us.... who were actually waiting in line for 2 freaking long hours. Yet they would now, like everyone to follow the rules.@_@ We all walked, so the 2 divas in front of me, wouldn't get their noses, all out of joint. And I still got my spot. And yes, she did save him his 100 tsubo leisure sheet sized spot. We saved only the amount of spot, that we needed. And again we would have saved less, if we didn't need to keep a tent free zone. But to be honest...I wish this school would *stop* allowing people to save spots for their friends who are clearly not there or way at the back of the line! Something like a new rule of... you may now only save 1 leisure sheet per family! And I'm not talking about a 100 tsubo sized leisure sheet. It's just wrong. It's disgusting and it's hugely unfair. And I am sorry for saying this...but I just feel that it was just time for me, to get that off my chest. Be fair people. Treat people, like you would want to be treated! And rules should be followed by everyone. The locals shouldn't be exempt! |