| These are Noah's grades. He has straight A's except 1 B. We are not too thrilled about the B. But having a 3.8 GPA is actually pretty freaking amazing. I did ask Noah to ask his history teacher, for extra credit homework already. She asked Noah why? He said, because my parents watch my grades daily online (you can do this is America now) and they're wanting me to bring up my B to an A. He said, she smiled and said there's still plenty of time to bring up his B to an A between now and December. At least she knows we're watching his progress daily and we care quite a bit about their grades. So in a nutshell how are both Branden and Noah doing in American school? Honestly? They're crushing it! Because my kids are 100% true bilinguals. Native English speakers, same as me. And I sent them to English Kumon since age 3 in Japan, because I wanted them to get English from me at home, plus an outside place too, where they could study English near others studying English and working on the technical stuff too. Plus, I bought those American school...whole year curriculum books from Amazon USA and had them sent to Japan and they did those since kindergarten, all the way until the end of 6th grade. They were cheap in price and useful. Plus I would have THEM read to me daily. Mama (me, I already know how to read) I would have *them* read to me. For practice. So, I always knew they were basically right up to their grade level in the US. And believe me! That didn't happen by osmosis or by itself. Hafu kids being raised in Japan are NOT automatically bilingual. And are not automatically native English speakers. It takes diligent hard work. They (my kids) heard Japanese language the second they left our front door in Japan. So we kept this English insulated bubble inside our house. And that just happened to work for us. You know, I often have had deep discussions with my fellow foreign mom friends, the ones I'm really really close with. The question we have dove into while at Starbucks many of times is.... What qualifies as a true 100% bilingual. Or native English speaker? We all have very different opinions on what *we* feel qualifies. What we would discuss over coffee... is accent. We would have lively fun debates "that if your kids have a thick Japanese accent, can you still be considered a 100% bilingual?" or a native English speaker? I say, absolutely not. But then I'm more so... the honest Simon Cowell or Gordan Ramsay of the group. Having raised 2 100% bilingual kids in Japan, (2 native English speaking kids in Japan) I find I am very opinionated on the subject. I'm not going to "Emperor's New Clothes" anyone. And my group of foreign mom friends were split meaning half said no too, and half said yes. Again this deep conversations were fun and it was always great to see our respectful but varying opinions. What about "what if you... have to translate English that your friends or family is saying to your hafu child...can you still call them 100% bilingual?" Again, I say, absolutely no way! Nice kids, but 100% bilingual?, I don't think you can call them that. And again, this particular question mostly every person agreed and said no! They would not consider that kid a 100% bilingual either. And most certainly not a native English speaker. It was always nice meeting up throughout the years and chime in and talk about something important to us all. In a supportive manner. And get food for thought, from each other. What, I personally consider 100% bilingual and also a native English speaker... is when an American person who has zero connection to my family (meaning they're not going to say it to be nice)...such as a flight attendant or a person working at Target, can have a 100% conversation with Noah or Branden. And they, meaning the person, can't detect any Japanese accent from my kids... other than a strong American accent. And they don't realize my kids came from Japan. If you can blindfold yourself and hear 3 American teens speaking and not be able to tell *which* kid came from Japan. Then I would consider your kid, a 100% true bilingual. And also a native English speaker. And if you blindfolded yourself...seriously... you could not tell the difference between *my* kids speaking and any random kid in the U.S. So when I say my kids are true 100% bilinguals, and native English speakers, that's what I mean. The only accents my kids have are American ones. Meaning they can have a 100% fluid conversation with my kids. You don't need to dumb down the conversation for my kids or the vocabulary. To me...that's what I personally consider a true 100% bilingual. And native English speaker. And my kids have always been that. You don't have to dumb down the Japanese or the English. My kids speak Japanese as much as Noboru does and English as much as I do. My kids didn't need to join any ESL class or remedial classes at all, when we moved here. Because of their native English level, they were able to join regular classes according to their grade. Which is kind of really remarkable really, when you think about it. Also if you see the schedule, they don't call English class...English anymore. Like they did in the old days. Doh! They call it Language Arts. And because Noah is a 7th grader, he's in LA 7. And advisory you don't get a grade, you go there, before first period every Friday. |